Month: June 2017

a new mindset.

The need for having a new mindset when handling situations is so important. Many times we find ourselves doing the same things over and over, hoping to have a different outcome, but.. HOW can you have a different outcome when repeatedly doing the same thing? Simple: You can’t. A new mindset will give you new results. I have came to the conclusion that a new mindset does this: 1. It encourages growth. 2. It allow a person to understand his/or her abilities can be developed through learning (from his/or her mistakes), effort (trying to change) and perseverance (not giving up until that change is done). What’s the point of having a “fixed” mindset and staying stagnant? It’s time to change “our” thoughts and watch the words that we say. Have you even accepted that something needs to be changed about your thinking? Majority of the time we do not. We tend to ignore and just say “yeah I have to change this about myself”, but never actually do it. Change requires action. (I’ve learned that …

dear GRADUATES and non-GRADUATES…

You should bask in this moment, here’s why: 1. You chose to pursue with getting an education despite the odds against you. 2. Hard work will eventually pay off in the end, it always does trust me! 3. You’re freaking doing the damn thing, graduating now, later or in the future it does not matter. 4. You are an inspiration! I use to be sad when graduation time came around because it’s a reminder that I’m not THERE YET, but little did I know I am exactly where I need to be. See, if you’re like me who’s changed their major more than twice, took a semester off (because of whatever reason), transferred schools (and your credits did not all get accepted) or you even had to just work to get those dollars… IT IS OKAY. It is okay. I had to really understand that it is okay truly because I’m working towards my success. Why should you ever have to explain to the critics why you’re not graduating this semester? Who made them PERFECT? …