Positivity wins every time​.

Hello loves, stepping into a new week like… 


Photos by Duran Andrae (@duranandrae on IG)

Let’s start it off with some positivity.

Today’s post literally popped in my mind and I decided to just go with it. Since becoming a blogger I have been learning myself more and also been trying to be vulnerable more in my daily lifestyle. I’ve written a previous post called Reclaiming The Word Vulnerable, where I discuss the pros of vulnerability and how in some ways it is not such a terrible thing. Go take a read after if you have time, but today I just wanted to share some positiveness with you guys because there are so many things to be thankful for. With all the shootings, killings and overall horror going on in the world today, it is prevalent to keep our heads up and our hearts set on God!

First of all, celebrate yourself. Celebrate your ups AND your downs. Yes, I wrote your downs too. Many people go through situations that may not have been the best, grow from it and move on. In my opinion, I think you WE need to look back at that situation and see it as something that made us get better, push harder, fight the fight and walk the walk. Celebrating your downs gives off a liberating feeling of “YOU KNOW WHAT I FAILED, BUT IT HAPPENED FOR A REASON.” Think about it. The job you did not get, the girlfriend/boyfriend who was no good, the friend who was fake, the teacher who doubted you, the class you failed, the child who disrespected you, the boss who did you wrong, the co-worker that schemes on your success, the manager who wants to sabotage your job, the church memeber who lied on you etc., all the things that happened was for your good. Do not dwell on it or let it consume you.


Second thing, RE-EVALUATE yourself. See what you can brush up on and make better. Is your attitude positive or negative? Are you trying as hard as you can to get what you want or are you lazy? What excuses have you made lately to cover up what needs to get done? (That question just hit me in the face y’all, because I have made soooooo many excuses lately to not do stuff!) Are you stagnant? Make MONEY MOVES. PERIOD. We are hindering ourselves from success. Sometimes we need to hear it from someone else for it to resonate in our minds and that’s fine. Opportunities don’t come to those who just sit around and are not working, GET UP! Re-evaluate your life and do whatever necessary to get where you want to be.

Be your best, even in your hardest times. As I’ve written before in my previous post Your Season Is Coming, remember that everything takes time. Don’t get discouraged and do not let negative thoughts consume your mind.

Try to be optimistic every day. Positivity gives you an open mindset. “Being positive does not mean that you ignore life’s less pleasant situations, but it means that you are taking a stand to approach those situations in a more productive way”. That was a deep quote! Something as simple as smiling can release the endorphins in your brain to make you feel a bit happier. You are the captain of your own ship when you choose how you respond to other people’s MESS. I’m preaching to myself right now because I have not mastered this yet. I still answer people based on my feelings at the moment, without taking a deep breath and staying calm. This is hard, but it would be such a rewarding thing to master. So today I encourage you (and myself) to take time to be positive and think before we speak.

LASTLY remember this, as Denzel Washington said “Fail big. To get something you never had you have to do something you never did. Take risks, keep striving never give up…fall down 7 times and get up 8. If you don’t fail you’re not even trying. FAIL BIG, you will lose. embarrass yourself, you will SUCK at something.” Do what you love and what you’re passionate about!

Outfit details: Top- ASOS, Jeans- H&M, Shoes- STEVE MADDEN, Bag- ALI-EXPRESS

Remember that positivity wins every single time.

Thank you for stopping by,

Enjoy your week, xoxo MJ.


  • This is such a great post! I Definietly connect with it on a personal level. I love to be positive, after so kuch hurt and heart break in life I find it’s better to focus on the positive. Ps. I love that outfit!

    Jordanne || Thelifeofaglasgowgirl.co.uk

  • What a lovely post to read after a very deflating weekend! It’s always good to celebrate everything, as they say every cloud has a silver lining. It’s always good to take risks and try your best to stay positive, even when things are tough. You look absolutely amazing in the photos too and I LOVE the outfit!
    Alice Xx

  • Such a motivational piece! You won me at the title, I’m a firm believer that positivity wins everytime! Today was a rough day for me, I was stuck in bed all day in and out of sleep cause I wasn’t feel well at all 🙁 Reading this definitely added some spunk to my night! <3

    xx Lena | https://lenadeexo.com

  • I loved this post! I often find myself overwhelmed and feeling negative whenever things go wrong, but maintaining a positive mindset always helps overcome the situation. Negative thoughts will never achieve anything. Great post x

    Evie x | https://eviejayne.co.uk

  • This is a really great post! I really like your positive mindset while acknowledging that negative things do happen in one’s life. I agree that it is about using those negative events and turning them into something positive to whatever degree possible. I write about similar topics in my own posts from the perspective of positive psychology, which asks what it means to live a meaningful and fulfilling life. Feel free to check it out sometime and I welcome any contributions that you may have. Great post, and I hope that you are doing well!

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