Keeping It Real.
Let’s be real…
People never keep it real, especially with themselves, but hopefully, after this post, you won’t be one of those people.
2019 we have a lot of things we want to accomplish, but what’s real is this… YOU WILL NOT ACCOMPLISH ANYTHING WITHOUT A PLAN. Show me someone who accomplished their goal without proper direction and I’ll stand corrected.
Start HERE.
This year I want us to elevate ourself—mind, body, soul. What does it mean to elevate? Elevate means to rise to a more important, impressive level. With elevation, there needs to be recognition and change. I bet y’all didn’t know that! Write down what you can do to ignite that flame inside of you. Get a book specifically for this, this way you can jot down your goals for the new year. Not just any goal, but realistic goals that are attainable. Elevation of oneself also involves willingness to want to do better and get better. A lot of us say things, but our actions show something totally different. Let’s TRY DO IT. More action.
–> Next, PLAN IT OUT.
Every plan executed the right way will work out. I have been caught in 2018 not planning things out properly and then, in the end, having to rush or settle for less (or even miss out). So this year I decided that the best way to WIN, is to plan things out ahead of time. To be honest, when we make plans (lavish plans) right now we may not have all the funds or resources, but that’s okay. That’s where saving comes in. Y’all I’m literally speaking to myself in this post also. When it comes to saving, this year I’m trying to buckle down and prosper for real. So planning + saving goes hand in hand if you want REAL results.
Okay so far, I made it clear the
importance of elevation/action + planning/saving,
the next thing I want to discuss is acknowledgment.
Acknowledge It.
All Photos By Cassy G.
When we acknowledge something, we give it our undivided attention or recognition. That entails us becoming aware, open, and vulnerable—in some cases. You’re probably wondering what exactly I’m referring to right now, aren’t you? Bare with me. Okay, so acknowledgment is something many of us choose to ignore. We do not face the things in our life or the things about us that need changing and that can be the thing that keeps us back immensely.
Recognition ignites a decision.
Question: Do you take accountability for your actions? I’m talking about your actions that are recognized…or do you choose to blatantly ignore it? Think about that.
Some helpful tips:
- Deal with things head on.
- Acknowledge where you may have done wrong.
- Apologize first.
- Cry if you need to.
- Let go of excuses.
- Make realistic resolutions.
- KEEP IT REAL WITH YOURSELF.
Remember, “every level of your life will require a different version of yourself.”
Outfit deets:
Turtleneck sweater & Booties- Boohoo, Jacket- Zara, Skirt- Forever 21, Bag- Aldo
Great blog post, really love your tips! Your pictures are so beautiful too. 🌸💜
With love, Alisha Valerie x | http://www.alishavalerie.com
Thank you so much love! I appreciate you stopping by for a read!
Great post and you are so right. It’s too easy to fall into the ‘I will someday’ trap if we aren’t making a tangible and workable plan. Nothing is going to change unless you’re willing to change it!
Britt | http://alternativelyspeaking.ca
I’m working on being disciplined with the action & planning this year 😄
I relate so heavily to this post and 100% believe in the strength of planning in achievement. These pictures are absolutely gorgeous, you look stunning girl!
Soph – https://sophhearts.com x
Okay sis, I hear you. And I totally agree. BUT have you seen yourself ? Absolutely stunning photos 🔥😩
I am loving the yellow photos!! Also thank you for sharing this post, so much motivation to get doing things this year!?:)
Love the color yellow
I told you on Instagram and I am tellong you again here, you look AWESOME in these pictures.
Also, you did make a point about being faithful and loyal to ourselves. Thank you for sharing.
http://www.rogueandrouge.org
Thank you my love! I appreciate it.
Love this post.
•Bree
LetsBeBreef.com/blog
Great post, Marikah! Saving is key for me this year too.
http://www.fashionenth.com
I couldn’t agree more with this! It is indeed important to create tangible plans, real plans to work things out and reach the goals. Thanks for sharing this!
Tyas // https://wepsgallery.wordpress.com
YES! Glad it helped <3 Thanks for stopping by!
inspiring
we need to look before what we see. i.e dream and work to achieve that dream. https://www.africvita.com