All posts tagged: mindset

Stand For Something.

Dress details: ASOS, Bag- Topshop Today marks a new month and new months go, we decide that we want a new outlook on how we do things because in our minds we have to change. I cannot lie, this has been my way of thinking too. Nothing is wrong with that, but one thing I have realized is that you do not need a new month to occur in order for you to have these thoughts or mindsets. Anytime is the right time. Enough about that, today’s post points a finger back at ‘oneself’. What do you stand for? What are you standing on? Why do you stand? Think about those three questions as I prepare to feed your mind and souls. What do you stand for? The question every person has been asked, either by someone or by themselves. The saying goes “If you don’t stand for something, you’ll fall for anything”. How true is this statement to you? To me this is simple, decide in your heart what you believe in that is …

choices and consequences.

Hello friends! I’m happy to be able to see a new day, a new opportunity to determine my future, a new chance at life. Today’s post stems from a dream I had about how one decision can ruin your entire life. I don’t usually share my dreams a lot, but this one is necessary and it taught me so much and it changed my view on life. ACTUAL LIFE AND FREEDOM. Stay tuned until the end, this is an important read. Choose YOU. Sometimes we find ourselves in situations and we think back like “how did I get here?” Sometimes we even find ourselves so deep that we feel like we cannot come out, so we say “it is what it is”. I have seen myself do this way too many times. Honestly, that is the mindset a lot of people out there have and that is why they are where they are right now. My dream. I had a dream last night, that has really changed my whole entire mindset. In my dream I …

a new mindset.

The need for having a new mindset when handling situations is so important. Many times we find ourselves doing the same things over and over, hoping to have a different outcome, but.. HOW can you have a different outcome when repeatedly doing the same thing? Simple: You can’t. A new mindset will give you new results. I have came to the conclusion that a new mindset does this: 1. It encourages growth. 2. It allow a person to understand his/or her abilities can be developed through learning (from his/or her mistakes), effort (trying to change) and perseverance (not giving up until that change is done). What’s the point of having a “fixed” mindset and staying stagnant? It’s time to change “our” thoughts and watch the words that we say. Have you even accepted that something needs to be changed about your thinking? Majority of the time we do not. We tend to ignore and just say “yeah I have to change this about myself”, but never actually do it. Change requires action. (I’ve learned that …